We all get nervous when we meet someone new and we kind of like them a little too. The main challenge in this case isn’t the part where you ask them to go out with you on a date or a dinner.
The most challenging part is to find out whether the girl likes you or not. Some of the men are restless and some just don’t want to waste too much time. So what they want to do is that they want to know immediately whether the girl likes them too or not. This saves a lot of time and effort.
Some of you might be really good at detecting vibes and some aren’t so good at it. Vibes are usually the best way to tell whether the lady is into you or not, but for those who lack that skill, you should continue reading to find out how you can tell whether or not the lady is into you.
It is easy to tell whether a smile is genuine or someone is just faking it. If the girl is smiling at you and you feel like it is a genuine smile with a little bit of spark in her eyes, then it is one of those indications that the girl likes you. Notice how she smiles when she looks at you for the first time. If you notice that smile in her eyes as well, that means that she is definitely interested. If the smile is fake or without a spark in her eyes then do not be sad, there are several more hints that may help to find out her opinion about you.
Body language is common in all cultures, it is more like a universal way of expressing your emotions. You can see how much eye contact the girl is maintaining or how comfortably she’s sitting. If she is maintaining an eye contact then she is interested. The eye contact should be with a smile and not with firm facial expressions. Similarly, if she is sitting comfortably then that means she trusts you and she is comfortable around you. These two can also help indicate whether she is interested or not.
A very important fact is the non-verbal communication. This is another way of communicating through your body movements and this is slightly more complex as compared to body language. Not everyone can understand the nonverbal communication. Research says that if a girl likes you, she will unconsciously mimic your movements, like placing her hand in the same position as you have or synchronizing her eye blinking with yours. If this happens then congratulations, you have found out that she likes you before even she knew that she liked you.
Another thing to observe is that whether she is leaning in while talking to you or not. In humans, leaning in has several meanings at an unconscious level and they are:
I am harmless.
I am open.
I am interested.
I am fertile.
I am approachable.
All these indicate a certain level on interest, therefore if the lady is leaning in while talking to you, then she is definitely interested.
4.A little shy in the beginning:
For some men, a little bit of shyness at the beginning can be a major turn on as it is related to the biology of men and women. Shyness shows the submissiveness of the women which is primitive in nature and men like it because of the primitive dominant nature. So, if you see shyness in the beginning then that is a green signal from Biology itself.
5.Sense of approval:
If she isn’t interested, she will make sure she gives you all the hints, but if she is interested then she will give you all those subtle hints that she approves of you. She might act all cool in the beginning and not let her hopes go up real high, but if she is impressed and approves of you then she will also make sure that you know it too.
6.Question, a lot of questions:
If she is interested in you then she will want to know more about you and that means- a lot of questions. She will ask about your likes and dislikes and at the same time she will ask a little bit about your background and current life situations.
If she likes you then she will give you all her attention in that meeting. She also wants to find out whether you are good for her or not. Which is why she will notice everything about you and then use that information to calculate whether she should open up more or just leave things there. This is the point where you have to use all your charm and prove it that you’re the one for her.
If you have met someone and noticed the same hints and indications then share your experience and let us know if it worked out or not. Let me know in the comments below!
Enock Mugabi aka Eye Witness is a Journalist, Seasoned Writer and Music Analyst with a passion for sports.
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