DEAR ZZINA POWER: MY husband has lost his libido and never wants to have sex with me.
I’m 28, while he’s a bit older at 38. We’ve been together for ten years.
He thinks that because he was a bit of a lad as a young man, he’s now “burned out” and we are too old to be having fun in bed.
When I got upset about that, he said it’s not me and that even if a girl of 18 propositioned him, he still wouldn’t be interested.
He told me he was sorry and knows it isn’t fair to me.
The thing is, I know he’s been watching a lot of porn on his phone when he thinks I am asleep.
So he must still be interested in romps – just not with me.
I am not ready to give up on ‘adult activities’ for the rest of my life and if things don’t change, I fear I will end up cheating.
ZZINA POWER SAYS: It is a horrible feeling to think you have been rejected by the person you love.
But he can’t expect you to settle for a bonk-less relationship.
So can you talk again and tell him you are worried about where your relationship is headed?
Also, try to persuade your husband to see his GP.
It may be that medication or counselling could help him resolve this issue.
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