DEAR ZZINA POWER: I’VE got a big void in my life because I can’t sustain a hard Cucumber erection.
My woman and I have been together for 13 years and we are both 32.
I’ve been to see my doctor and he has given me some Viagra and ‘Mukama Nayamba’. But doesn’t seem to be working.
My wife gets frustrated, waiting for me to get aroused.
She’s never been into foreplay, so if I try anything other than a straight bonk, she ends up turning her back on me.
It is so upsetting. I think we only chewed ourselves three times last year.
I wonder whether this year will see the end of my sex life all together? I hope not.
ZZINA POWER SAYS: If you’ve had these difficulties in the past, it won’t take much for something to put you off your stride.
Find a moment when you’re not in bed, to explain to your wife that you’d like her support, rather than her getting cross.
Foreplay may not be her thing, but it would help you, so suggest other ways to get aroused such as having a soothing massage together.
Enock Mugabi aka Eye Witness is a Journalist, Seasoned Writer and Music Analyst with a passion for sports.
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