DEAR ZZINA POWER: MY boyfriend thinks I was lying about being a virgin because I didn’t bleed the first time we chewed each other.
I’m 23 and he’s 30, and we’ve been seeing each other for three months.
He said I couldn’t have been a virgin because I wasn’t shy when we had sex, but that’s because I felt comfortable with him.
Now he says I’m lying and must have had sex with other guys.
I feel horrible and don’t know what to say or do to make him believe me.
ZZINA POWER SAYS: This is your boyfriend’s problem, not yours.
He’s insecure and has preconceived ideas about how a woman’s body works.
Not every woman bleeds the first time.
Don’t accept this treatment – it will damage your self-esteem and confidence.
Do think carefully about whether you want to stay with him.
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